You or Me?

I’m so angry. I want to scream. I want to cry.

I do not understand why people can’t be understanding. I do not understand how someone who is supposed to love you unconditionally can be so selfish.

I was so excited this morning. I am graduating in less than two weeks. I am taking a cruise in three weeks. I have so much to look forward to…

But one phone call changed it all. One short conversation about something that means so much to me.

I’m no longer excited. I’m angry and sad.

I have to make some huge, life-changing decisions to make now and I have to figure out what is most important.

Do I pick A or B? Do I choose you or me?

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33 responses to “You or Me?

  1. I hate when life throws your curveballs like this. I say: Choose You. You’re fantastic.

  2. Allison Blass

    Ugh. I hate you were put in that position.

    But you always, ALWAYS choose yourself (except in the case of little children, but that’s neither here nor there).

  3. I’m kind of in the same boat right now – my life feels completely up in the air. I’m with Lindsay, you HAVE to chouse you…when it comes down to it, your happiness and mental health are what really matter!

    ::HUGS::

  4. Uh oh…what happened 😦

    Choose you because you’re amazing and deserve the best.

  5. ChasingParadise

    Uh oh. What happened, doll?

    Regardless, always choose YOU. You come first, my dear. xoxo

  6. I’m sorry you’re so upset right now! I hope things start to look up. Howeber you ALWAYS have to choose yourself. If you don’t, you will most likely regret it and hold it against the person you picked over yourself.

  7. I wish I knew what happened! Are you okay? Again, you have to choose you, always.

    (((HUGS)))
    http://fab.typepad.com/brunette

  8. Always choose you.

  9. I always panic a bit when things seem perfect, too good to be true or I’m just really happy. I always get nervous that something bad will happen.

    I hope things get better for you!! x

  10. You choose the person you can always count on to be there for you. Choose the person that no matter what, at the end of the day has your best interests at heart and will always be looking out for you.

    That person is YOU.

  11. Always choose you. Always put yourself in the top priority, other people don’t own you, you do 🙂

  12. I agree with the others about choosing yourself but that’s so hard to do sometimes. I’m sorry to hear that things suddenly took a turn 😦

  13. Little Miss Obsessive

    Always choose you. You need to put yourself first. Good luck making those hard decisions. I know things will work out for you in the end.

    “Eventually all the pieces fall into place… until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moment, and know that everything happens for a reason.”

  14. First, *hugs

    I hate when life does that.

    I think you should always choose YOU!

  15. Uh oh, I hope things work out. Do what’s best for you. Often as women, we put others before ourselves… take care of yourself first!!

  16. I don’t know what is happening, but choose YOU!! In the end you have to make yourself happy!

  17. I think you should choose you, because only you have to live with the choices you make, no one else.

  18. Uh oh. Sorry to hear you’re having a bad day!!

    Choose you, you’ll be happier in the long run!

  19. Choose YOU, because HE doesn’t care about you.

  20. miss rambles

    choose YOU

    at the end of the day its your life and having someone else control it will only bring you misery and make you resent that person

    choose YOU

  21. My gut reaction is to say choose “you”, especially if you are being forced to make a choice and the person is not being understanding. If they’re not understanding about this, there may be more in the future they are not understanding about (of course I don’t know this person, so that’s a broad judgment, but you know what I mean)

  22. Sorry to hear that — I say follow your gut! It knows! Good luck!!

  23. im sorry! hope it all works out! 🙂

  24. i say you choose you! 🙂

    i hope it works out. *sending hugs and drinks your way*

  25. Sending big hugs your way.

    Echoing everyone else’s sentiments, always always choose you. If you don’t look out for you, who will? You are an amazing and talented person.

  26. Go with your gut, it will never lead you astray. Pick you.

  27. Ahhhh… I am dying to know about the phone call!!! I’m with everyone else…choose YOU!

  28. Choose you! I’m sorry you have been put in what is clearly a difficult place. Please know we’re all thinking of you. Hang in there.

  29. If the other person in this senario was the one who had to pick, what would he/she do?

    Would he/she pick YOU? or would they pick themself? BEcause there is NO WAY you should be picking the other person if they wouldn’t be doing the same for you.

  30. You choose you. xoxo, darling 🙂 And I’m an email/GChat away if you want to talk ok?

  31. Choose you! That one that should (does!) love you unconditionally will come around. The big picture is your happiness. Take the path that will lead there.

  32. So sorry something happened to dampen everything 😦 Try to focus on the good, and choose you.

  33. I don’t know what happened but completely know this feeling.

    it’s September and I hope that things have def. changed. It takes a while for things to feel different.

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