I Failed NaBloPoMo

November 10, 2009 · 13 Comments

Since it’s been several days since I last posted, I guess it’s kind of obvious that I failed at NaBloPoMo this year. Oops.

I don’t have a really good excuse, except that Friday night around 8pm I realized that I was out with friends and was probably not going to be home before midnight to write a post. (We were at a place called Hog Creek IceHouse drinking beer and two-stepping, can you blame me?) So I did what any normal blogger would do. I told twitter.

And then on Saturday when I could have redeemed myself with a really awesome apology post I decided I didn’t really care. I skipped Saturday. And Sunday. And Monday. But I’m back now. I probably won’t keep posting everyday, but I will try harder. Promise.

Also, there have been some other exciting things going on, but I don’t want to go into details right now because I’m being all superstitious and I’m afraid I’ll jinx it. And I’m sorry for being that blogger who is all “I HAVE SUCH GREAT NEWS BUT I CAN’T TELL YOU HAAAAHAAAAAAAAA!”, but today I am. Really so so sorry.

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Thankfully

November 5, 2009 · 8 Comments

Today I am thankful for…

… iced coffee and travel mugs.

… co-workers who make me laugh and whom I absolutely adore.

… the opportunity to work for an organization I love and whose mission I completely support.

… a relaxing afternoon and the chance to take a cat nap on the pretty new couch in my office.

… my new client who is young, bold, engaging, and full of life, but also a child, scared, and yearning to grow.

… an evening with friends eating homemade pasta, salad, and chocolate bread pudding while watching The Office, Modern Family, and The Middle.

… Pinot Grigio.

… amazing blog friends like you and you and you and you.

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Knowing Myself

November 4, 2009 · 11 Comments

I’m finding myself in a very annoying state of mind lately where I’m constantly comparing myself to others. I question each decision and wonder what others will think.

“What should I have for lunch? What color curtains should I hang in my bedroom? What should I do this weekend?”

Every. single. tiny. decision.

And I hate this new lack of confidence. Usually I am sure of myself and others’ opinions don’t really matter to me. So why is this happening now? Maybe it’s because I’m making new friends and not surrounded by people I know well. Maybe that’s why I’m so confused and unsure?

Whatever it is, it’s exhausting and I really wish I would snap out of it.

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Blogging Through The Years: Kindergarten

November 3, 2009 · 6 Comments

A few weeks ago I was reading Ashley’s blog, Writing To Reach You, when she started a new series called Blogging Through The Years.  The idea is that you write a blog post about each year, beginning with kindergarten and following through college. Once I read Ashley’s post about kindergarten, I knew I wanted to follow along and write about my own experiences as well. If you like this idea, feel free to join us!

I remember certain parts of kindergarten fairly well considering I barely turned five years old that September. In fact, I probably remember more from kindergarten than I do from first grade, but we’ll get to that later.

Kindergarten was not my first year of school. I had been in mother’s day out and spent a year in pre-school, so I was familiar with the routines. My teacher was an older lady with gray hair and big glasses. She reminded me of a nice grandmother, but she also scared me.

When my mom or dad would drop me off at school in the morning, I would stand at the window in my classroom and watch them drive away. I remember being so sad that they left me, but I don’t think I cried… too much.

My sister was born that August. I remember feeling her kick inside my mom’s stomach. I remember being woken up in the middle of the night and taken to the neighbor’s house. I remember my dad driving me to the hospital the next morning and holding her for the first time, but I don’t remember much else about having a baby sister this year.

This was the year I met most of the friends I would keep until fifth grade. Our school was small with only one or two classes per grade. My best friend in kindergarten was a girl named Samantha. I don’t remember much of her at school, but I remember playing barbies at her house. She moved away after that year and I never saw her again. I still think about her sometimes and I’ve even tried to look her up on facebook, but no luck.

In school, when we were learning how to connect the dots I was told to sit behind the teacher’s desk because I was connecting the numbers… not the dots. It was so embarrassing and I’m pretty sure this is one of the reasons I’m such a perfectionist when it comes to school work.

One day I walked into the classroom wearing a baggy sweatshirt with rhinestones all over it and the teacher told me that she wished they made it in her size. even thought I’m sure she didn’t mean it, I felt like the coolest kid in school that day.

We took a field trip to a local farm we where saw different animals that year. At the end of the trip the farmer asked if anyone wanted to put a snake around their neck. A few kids volunteered, but I was too scared. Our teacher did it and someone took a picture. I kept that photograph for years. I may still have it in a box somewhere.

During free centers I would pick out a book, sit in a chair, and my friends would sit on the floor in a semi-circle in front of me. I told them I knew how to read, but really, I would make up a story as I turned the pages of the book. I don’t think anyone ever figured out my elaborate scheme.

Every day we would sit on the floor and learn different stories. Often the teacher would have an easel with felt pictures to illustrate the story. One time the teacher was explaining how someone was fired from their job. She asked to make we sure we all knew what that meant. No one raised their hand, but I thought it meant the person was burned alive while they were at work.

During our handwriting lessons we learned to write each letter of the alphabet. One day the teacher told me my “m” was beautiful, but a little too close to the next letter. I was so sad that I had to erase it.

Every morning we counted our numbers aloud and the teach followed along with her pointer on the large number chart hanging on the wall. I thought this was so boring and most of the time I only mouthed the words.

We had naptime every afternoon with the other kindergarten class from across the hall. On the days when I wasn’t tired, I would sleep next to this boy, Michael, and play with his fingers while he was sleeping. (Yes, I was a strange child, haha.) He never woke up, but it kept me entertained.

When I wasn’t bothering Michael while he was trying to sleep, I was watching the other kindergarten teacher cut out pieces of paper. I was in awe of how she could move the scissors around so quickly without making any mistakes.

This was also the year I got the chicken pox. I don’t remember being sick or feeling itchy, but I do remember my Nana coming to stay with me while my parents were at work. She painted my nails and took me to McDonald’s. I thought it was so cool that I got to miss school and play on the playscape and eat french fries.

 

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Starbucks Doubleshot Energy+Coffee WINNERS!

November 2, 2009 · 4 Comments

Can you believe that it’s already been two weeks since the Starbucks Doubleshot Energy+Coffee giveaway? When I got an email reminding me to pick five winners today, I was confused. “It hasn’t been two weeks! What is this crazy talk?!” And then I checked. Yep, two weeks. Oops, silly me. But good news for you! It’s time to pick some winners!

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I compiled the list of valid entries (there were 39) and used random.org to pick five random numbers. And the results…

2. Doniree

7. Nora

17. Chasing Paradise

26. JenniferAlaine

32. Rebekah

Congratulations to all the winners! Please email me at ashleyasaurora@gmail.com so I can get you your prize! I know you’re going to love the Starbucks Doubleshot Energy+Coffee drinks. I had a vanilla flavored one this morning, and seriously, it was delicious! And energizing! WIN! And exclamation points!

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NaBloPoMo and a Crush

November 1, 2009 · 22 Comments

It’s November 1st and you know what that means… it’s time for NaBloPoMo! (In case you’re not in the know, NaBloPoMo= National Blog Posting Month.  The only rule is that you post every day for a month.)

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I participated last year on my old blog and somehow managed to write a post every. single. day for the month of November. I loved NaBloPoMo last year. It took a lot of motivation, but it also helped my writing and when it was over I continued writing on a (almost) daily basis. Now, my posting has been a bit sparse lately, but I’m going to try. I can’t promise how exciting or full the posts will be, but I’m going to attempt to actually write with meaning.

So, for this first day of NaBloPoMo I have an exciting little story to share.

I met a boy this weekend!

He is a friend of a friend of a friend (follow that?) that I met at a concert on Friday night. I thought he was cute from the moment I met him, but I didn’t want to get my hopes up. For one, he’s really tall. Like really REALLY,  6′7″ tall. In my experience super tall guys don’t usually go for short (5′2″) girls like myself. And two, he played football in college. And football players intimidate me a bit.

But we talked for a few minutes during the concert and he asked if I was having fun.  He also bought me a drink. When we stood up to leave he said “This might seem kinda weird, but you have really pretty hair.” I laughed and told him thank you. I also told him that he was probably the tallest person I’ve ever met. And then we took a picture together.

After the concert our group moved along to another bar and he came too. This bar had an upstairs area with separate rooms which reminded me of a house party. In one room there were two leather sofas. He sat down and asked me to sit with him and we spent the next hour sitting and talking. He asked about my job, where I went to school, and how I liked New York. I asked him about football and how he liked Texas so far since he’s only been here a few weeks. We talked about traveling in Europe and what our favorite cities were. He asked about my family and told me about his. I had such a good time just talking to him that I didn’t even realize how late it was until the bartender told us they were closing.

When the night was over, he didn’t asked for number and I figured he wasn’t too interested. But Saturday afternoon I got a text from my friend saying he was asking for my number and asking if she could give it to him. So, yay!

And now that it’s almost two days later and I’m still thinking about him, I think it’s safe to say that I have a crush.

 

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All You Need

October 26, 2009 · 17 Comments

Sometimes life can be amazing and happy and stress-free.

And sometimes little frustrations find their way in and make you want to punch them in the face.

When that happens…

Sometimes all you need is a road trip with your sister, a handful of your favorite 90’s cds, and a flip camera.

(If you are reading this through a reader, click on over to my blog to see the video. Otherwise this post is not nearly as entertaining.)

P.S. Don’t forget to enter my Starbucks Doubleshot Energy+Coffee Giveaway! Contest ends 11/2/09.

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Starbucks Doubleshot Energy+Coffee Giveaway

October 19, 2009 · 42 Comments

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A few weeks ago I received an email asking if I would like to participate in a new promotional contest for Starbucks Doubleshot Energy+Coffee. Since we all know that I love coffee, particularly Starbucks, I immediately jumped at the opportunity.

Starbucks, I heart you. Your coffee is delicious and always gives me that little boost of energy when I most need it (like on this wretched Monday morning!).

Especially now that I’m starting a new job, I’m sure I’m going to need several boosts throughout the day. And I’m going to need some tips on how to stay at the top of my game. So this is where you come in to help. To enter the contest all you have to do is leave a comment telling me the best way to pretend to be working at work. Do you type blog posts just so it sounds like you’re busy in your cubicle? Do you take multiple trips to the restroom, just to pass the time? It can be anything! The contest will last for two weeks (ending November 2nd at 8am CST). Winners will be chosen at random to receive the following prizes:

Five (5) STANDARD PRIZE PACKS (valued at $30 each):

Standard Prize Packs

•  Stealth Switch™- “The World’s first desktop cloaking device.” StealthSwitch™ uses patent pending technology to instantly and completely hide applications with a press of the footswitch. The applications are not just are not just minimized, they are made invisible.
•  $5 Starbucks® Card
•  Starbucks Doubleshot® Energy+Coffee coupons
•  Starbucks Doubleshot® Energy+Coffee-branded white board

Edited to add: The Grand Prize Package has been removed from this post. To clear up any confusion, this package is not available to win through comments and will only be awarded to select contest holders.

This promotion is solely sponsored by me, AshleyD, and has not been endorsed or approved by North American Coffee Partnership. By entering, you agree to look solely to me for any claims in connection therewith, and not the North American Coffee Partnership.

NO PURCHASE NECESSARY. Subject to Contest guidelines. Open to U.S. residents only. Valid comments are any comments left during the two week contest period. Contest ends November 2nd at 8am CST.


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Payday and Other Happy Things

October 16, 2009 · 16 Comments

Today is payday! And it’s Friday! And my roommate is going out of town for the weekend! And UT is going to beat OU this weekend! And my office is finally coming together with tons of furniture delivered yesterday!

Happiness galore!

And other happy things?

I went to happy hour with my co-workers on Wednesday ($3 pitchers! Omg the benefits of living in a small town. Take that New York!) which was amazing and so much fun. While we were sitting out on the patio we also decided that we need weekly “Discover [insert name of town] lunches” on Fridays. So that will be fun.

I found new friends who love Glee. So Wednesday nights will most likely be spent at their apartment soaking up the delightfulness that is Mr. Schuester and Emma and Rachel and Finn and all the other quirky, talented kids.

Last night I went to the local fair and rodeo to see the Randy Rogers band in concert. I’m not a huge fan and only knew one song that they played, but it was still fun. Roommate and I went together and met up with one of my co-workers and her friends. Hooray for making new friends and enjoying live music!

I mentioned that today is payday and I cannot even explain how happy that makes me! I’ve been scrounging pennies together for the past five months and I’m so tired of being broke. But a pay check means that I actually have money in the bank which means that I can go shopping! This weekend I plan on buying a cute new bedspread, equally cute curtains, and bags full of groceries. And maybe a pair of shoes. I think I deserve shoes.

ALSO! The weather! Texas is known for its crazy and unpredictably weather, but yesterday (and hopefully this weekend) was gorgeous. 70’s and sunny? Yes, please!

What are you happy about today?

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Holding Pattern

October 13, 2009 · 17 Comments

I’ve been feeling a bit off lately. I’m not full fledged depressed or lonely, but I’m definitely not all smiles and optimism either.

I’m assuming this feeling is coming from work. We’re still in a “holding pattern” as my supervisor calls it.

I’m on the payroll which means I’ll be receiving my first ever grown-up job pay check on Friday, but I’m not really working yet. Our office is still in the growing stages. Our desks were ordered on Monday and should be delivered tomorrow or Thursday. We have a few computers, but no internet- the IT people are coming tomorrow. We have the suite leased, and a few office supplies on the few bookshelves lining the walls, but that’s about it.

So all of this means that I spend most of my time at home corresponding through e-mails and phone calls. I’ve been doing a lot of community outreach with my co-workers setting up meeting times with other agencies. Some days we are so bored we create our own “team building” events like going to see Whip It and having lunch at Panera, all on work time. It’s quite awesome actually. But after five consecutive days of sitting around watching Taylor Swift videos, working out and spending two hours at a time walking around Target, I want something more… rewarding.

That’s why I got a job in the first place. If I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom single person, I would have made that happen. My supervisor says our office should be up and running by the first week in November. Two and half more weeks. I may go crazy. Today I’m getting paid to meet my co-workers at Office Depot to make a list of other office furniture/supplies we need. I’m thinking a label maker, heavy duty hole punch, and dry erase markers are must-haves. Umm, how sad is that? My life has come to the pathetic point where the most exciting event of my day is buying office supplies.

I really hope these next few weeks start looking up.

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